It's not personal...

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The largest boost in my healing journey was such a basic thing, once I realized that the abuse wasn’t personal, but a matter of availability, my worth could start to be seen...

It would have been somebody else, if it wasn’t me, so that helped me to see that it was the predator that had the deficiency and “Victim-hood,” I was soon able to ween...

The abuser learns the art of intimidation acceleration, to hold their victims frozen in fear and believing it’s their “Stupid” personality that “Makes” people mean...

Most times it’s a dysfunction from a long lineage, with abuser and victim alike, but some just crave to make others “Less Than” what they could have been...

By Tracey Ross

From: Canada

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