Different Quests
They have different opinions
In many issues
That leads to their impasse
He wants his freedom
While she is willing to sacrifice
When they make family decisions
She thinks he is selfish
He complains she does not respect his choice
She prefers simple design
He insists elaborated process
When decorating their home
She deems his way wasteful
He considers her taste boring
She likes the quietude of mountain retreat
He loves the excitement of ocean sports
When they choose their vacation
She feels he is too adventurous
He disagrees with her conservativeness
It is not an issue of right or wrong
But the difference of their life values
Leading to their discord
Compromise is the only way
To achieve their marital harmony
By Shih-Fang Wang
From: United States